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I'd say give her a few days to herself and then call to keep in contact. Don't hound a person who wants to sit in a corner and think.

Take my advise with a grain of salt though. I'm just going off people, I got no experiance with this matter. :S

14/09/2007

The spinny chair of doom!, Queensland.

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How old are you? That would help me form an opinion

14/09/2007

The Big Blue Velour Marble

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ok so ill give her the time the only problem is im to nervous to call is that normal

im 16 almost turning 17

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I'd expect it is. Seconded the age question though, it makes a big difference.

14/09/2007

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dsreaper says:

I'd give her sometime and then call, ask to meet with her for lunch or something that might be a nice chance to talk. she's obviously really mad at you and sounds like she's on the verge of breaking it off.

In this situation unfortunately mate there's never a "exact way" to handle it, everyone is different and will respond accordingly.

Apologize? I don't know what the fight was about but depending on what went down an apology usually goes a long way.

14/09/2007

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but i really cant call her im that nervous but what i gota do is wat i gota do so ill call her....sunday??? and what do i say i need some pointers

ive tried apologising and if i say to meet or like talk on the fone she goes theres no difference because we wont talk anyway

i told her if she wants to sort this out and shes said a big YES but she also said even if we do fix it we aint gona talk much and it will end up stuffd up again

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ok - 16/17

She is going to have a lot of influences around her atm, be it family, friends, study, etc.... Give her some space and after a day or so I would pull her aside without any of those influences around her. Don't do it on the phone. Get her to sit down and talk it through. Get her alone.

At 17 it all seems so heavy on you and you can't see how it will work out. You feel the whole world upon your shoulders. You will get through it.

I wish you the best

14/09/2007

The Big Blue Velour Marble

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No offence to anyone, but isn't asking people on a Wii Forum website about your relationship problems pretty much the end of the line?

14/09/2007

Mario Kart Wii

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Well she said shes got exams coming up next week so thats one of the problems and i have exams the same week so how much time do i give her coz a party is coming up which i have to invite her to and im not jst gna leave her there not talking and all sad and everything. i need to get her to apologise b4 26 sept u rekn theres a chance

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people ask advice from people they are comfortable with. He obviously feels like he can seek advice from people he sorta respects. Look at this site. There is a huge demographic of people on this site. We have people ranging from pre-teens through to 40's. This forum is well behaved and moderated. Everyone has their opinion and it is respected. There is no age bashing on this site. Try and get the harmony of this forum on other forums on the net and you wold get bashed down.

my two cents

14/09/2007

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phatbass82 says:

rocky69 - Please edit your posts instead of double posting. Admins rules for discussions.

14/09/2007

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Look who's talking!
More like, what are you on? Please, take time when spelling out a sentence, it makes it a little easier to others when trying to decode your request.

14/09/2007

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nice words mrmorden

but yer wat u think i shuld do for the prob about the party

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dsreaper says:

Man relationships at that age are crazy lol.

I'd give her a couple of days then summon your courage and call her.
I think you're scared because you're expecting to be dumped which is understandable it rattles us all.

I'd be tempted to say "can't we forget this and move on?" you know try and recapture the relationship before this mess happened.

14/09/2007

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well, you can never apologise on a time table. relationships never look at the clock. I would do what we suggested first and sort it out after the exams. She is probably feeling the pressure of exams herself.

14/09/2007

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thats exactly what i said i said can we forgive and forget and start fresh. She goes we did and it didnt work out and it will just end up stuffed up again so i dno

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Hmm, I have an idea. Have some balls and freakin' call her and communicate rather then asking random people on a forum, helpful though they may be, I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate you getting advice from some strangers over the internet.
Once again, no offence, as I too fit in that category.

14/09/2007

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From what I noticed just being that age, and around girls that age, is that most seem to go through a disillusionment faze. Do you know what you actually did? or is it just that she thinks everythings suddenly wrong?
Best you could probably do is ease into the topic of the problem. Jumping at people and demanding answers only puts them on the defensive. Y'Gotta just talk about stuff, laugh, build a safe relaxed talking enviroment and she might let you know whats on her mind.

14/09/2007

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yer mr mordem she is saying she is on the urge to failing them and has alot on her mind

well the problem i think here is miscommunication which i understand that part but the other part she thinks i dont love her and wen we go out she goes it aint the same as b4....so wtf???

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dsreaper says:

Not to be an a**hole but it's starting to sound like it's over.
She's clearly not feeling the same or confused whatever she wants to go on about.

14/09/2007

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She sounds stressed.
The 'b4' is probably the fact that... well let me explain. When you first meet someone you talk and talk don't you? cause you getting to know someone. Once you know them all the stories have been told already so you talk less. That's why I suggested just talking about anything, it might remind her of when you'd just talk.

14/09/2007

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dsreaper said: Not to be an a**hole but it's starting to sound like it's over.
She's clearly not feeling the same or confused whatever she wants to go on about.

Don't worry, no one's a bigger a-hole then me

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