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rocky69
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rocky69 says:
afta these exams im in year 12
14/09/2007
NSW
Omi
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Omi says:
It sounds like she's feeling a bit overwhelmed by things, whatever they may be. I'd say, leave it up to her to call you. If she needs space, then her knowing that you're going to call is probably going to make her feel like she needs to sort herself out within a time limit, which is just going to overwhelm her more.

My idea? Write her a letter. Probably a bit old fashioned, but sweet, and you obviously have things to say to her but you don't want to go throwing them at her over the phone if she wants the space. Use it to tell her how much you love her, and that because of this you're going to give her the space she needs. Tell her to call you whenever she thinks she's figured out what it is she's feeling. That you'll miss her but you're willing to wait because you care about her that much.

But hey, that's just me. Good luck mate
14/09/2007
Mario Kart Wii
In the vegie patch
Reveler
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Reveler says:
no answer on this forum will be right.

I broke up with my gf from year 10 about 3 times, next year I'll be marrying her.

So I guess all is not lost, just be yourself as thats who she fell in love with in the first place. I've seen too many blokes start acting like a sad sack when there relationship heads south which just compounds the problem.

Good Luck!
14/09/2007
Perth, WA
dcel8
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dcel8 says:
first of all, give her space and dont call her. try not to look so desprete in front of your girlfriend(major turn off). Dont tell her that you love her and "NEED" her, show her whos the man.

eventually she'll come crawling back
14/09/2007
Melbourne, Werribee
Nuttermonk
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Nuttermonk says:
Or she'll hit you.

I like Omi's idea. She's too clever for her own good. If you take any of our advice though I wouldn't recomend telling her your source of info was a bunch of internet randoms. Hope it all works out for ya!
14/09/2007
The spinny chair of doom!, Queensland.
rysa
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rysa says:
I dunno if my advice would be any good, my gf moved out of our house yesterday and back home....just left me a note
But like everyone else has said give her some space and she will realize how much she misses u. Omis idea is good a letter is always a good way to express what your feeling, and everybody always appreciates a letter, good luck with it....there is always hope
14/09/2007
Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time, The
bayswater, melbourne, victoria
rocky69
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rocky69 says:
ok thx u so much everyone for ur help i appricate this

omi can u give me some tips on how to rite the letter in my perspective
14/09/2007
NSW
LostDjinn
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LostDjinn says:
A word to the wise there Rocky.
WORDS DON'T MEAN MUCH.
Action is the key to acheivement.
14/09/2007
Right here. What? You can't say I'm not.
rocky69
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rocky69 says:
yer tru dat but hey i posted a letter just now and i jst have to wait til monday to c wat happens ok

thx again everyone
14/09/2007
NSW
Omi
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Omi says:

LostDjinn said: A word to the wise there Rocky.
WORDS DON'T MEAN MUCH.
Action is the key to acheivement.

I don't know, Djinn. Words can mean a great deal, especially if they're the right action to take. Wriring a letter is an action, but I guess, if there's no meaning behind the words they're as good as just rearranging the alphabet.

Hope it works out for ya rocky
14/09/2007
Mario Kart Wii
In the vegie patch
djwill07
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djwill07 says:
Isnt there a saying like "if you Love it set it free and if it comes back its true love" or something like that?
in other words tell her your not interested and watch as she crawls back!
or even better ask her best friend out!
Gold...
14/09/2007
Mario Kart Wii
Melbourne, West Side!
phatbass82
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phatbass82 says:
Personally, I prefer actions. I'm not too good at expressing myself and how i feel on paper or verbally. It's all up in my head, but I just can't get it out!

Sometimes persistance can also help. That is, friendly gestures, persistantly. Depending on personality, it could be this or they may need a whole lot of space...
14/09/2007
Mario and Sonic at the Olympic Games
Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
djwill07
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djwill07 says:
doesnt anyone here think its ironic that an Italian stallion is having Relationship issues!
LMAO
14/09/2007
Mario Kart Wii
Melbourne, West Side!
me_is_fred
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me_is_fred says:

rocky69 said: hey guys im so scared atm, me n my gf r having a massive fight like we havnt been talking much. We have been miscommunicating for the past week and she thinks i dont love her but i tell her straight out how i feel about her and that i love her and stuff but she doesnt understand. She said shes got alot on her mind and needs time and i spoke to 2 of my friend and one said give her a call and keep in contact with her and the other said give her the time. What should i do to make things all back to normal plz im begging for someone to help i dont wna break up wif her



The same thing happened to me. It turns out that my girlfrind slept with one of my friends
14/09/2007
Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time, The
i'm in my room spanking the monkey. No, really, i have a monkey and i'm spanking it.
rocky69
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rocky69 says:
hmm wow well it does seem a bit sus tho but she said shes got heaps on her mind such as exams and yer so i dno bro
14/09/2007
NSW
annirowe
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annirowe says:
Rocky I understand you both have exams but have you offered to help her with her exams? Tell her you cant bear to see her so stressed so your putting your own needs aside and you want to work with her to ensure she is more comfortable with her school work.

But seeing you havent really told us the "real" reason your i trouble then all of our advice is just gonna send you on a wild goose chase.

Oh and dont listen to Dcel8..you will find yourself single very quickly!
14/09/2007
NBA Live 08
Mill Park, Victoria
desi
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desi says:
The best way to deal with a problem like this? Ask her what is wrong directly. Do not back off until you get a straight answer; if she is unwilling to give you one, then she probably never will.

I learned a long time ago not to take crap from a relationship. Yeah, I might love her and all, but it means nothing unless genuinely reciprocated. The 'not sure you love me' is the usual line chicks give guys to stall them.
14/09/2007
I'm in your profile, deleting your spams for Great Justice.
NoRC
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NoRC says:
I wouldnt worry to much man, she's just cheating on ya.

Like everyone said give her some space so she can get in tight with the new guy, at least then once the monkey has a hold of the next brance she can let you know she's letting go.

Hot tip about 16/17yr old girls... :P

"Ive got alot on my mind" = "There's someone else"

"Ive got exams next week" = "Im loosing my V Plates this weekend"

"You dont love me anymore" = "I dont love you anymore and im secretly seeing someone else"

Time to find a new girl bud hehehe :P
14/09/2007
Gold Coast
dermy
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dermy says:
Can this thread just die now, please?
I think he has enough advice now...
14/09/2007
Mario Kart Wii
Melbourne - K.P looks after me.
desi
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desi says:

dermy said: Can this thread just die now, please?
I think he has enough advice now...


But it's only been four hours! And no follow-up! Bit of internet drama never hurt anyone.
14/09/2007
I'm in your profile, deleting your spams for Great Justice.
dermy
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dermy says:
Okay, I'm just going to pretend it's not here, then, cause if you wanna help some little boy with his problems, then be my guest, but it's better off not being here.
14/09/2007
Mario Kart Wii
Melbourne - K.P looks after me.
rocky69
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rocky69 says:
yer guys i dno she doesnt seem like the cheating type coz she said shes losing interest in my and that she still loves me and wants to be together...she said she didnt wnaa break up
14/09/2007
NSW
Guyver
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Guyver says:
Dude your 16, I would even worry about it, move on get a new one. Enjoy your freedom
14/09/2007
Resident Evil 4
Shut up Slippy, I'm sick of saving your ass.
ZOIDBERG
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ZOIDBERG says:  
Buy her something d00d like a rose or something
14/09/2007
Mario Kart Wii
Planet Earth, New New York
desi
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desi says:

rocky69 said: yer guys i dno she doesnt seem like the cheating type coz she said shes losing interest in my and that she still loves me and wants to be together...she said she didnt wnaa break up



If she's losing interest in you, why does she want to stay together? Did you give her the old Spanish Inquisition about what's really wrong?

For all we know you two have fallen into some boring routine, and the best way to save the relationship is to pick her a flower every now and then. Hell, buy her a book. Chicks dig little surprises like that.
14/09/2007
I'm in your profile, deleting your spams for Great Justice.
 
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