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moosechild
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there's this girl I REALLY, REALLY wanna ask out (any one who has seen my pics please don't make any rude comments on my appearance) named Jessie Gunson. the thing is that my friend Luke says she likes me cuz I'm funny. he swears on his life he isn't lying but I still am not sure to believe him or not and I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not and I only see her when she is around all of her friends and if I get rejected it's gonna be the flippin' talk of the school. what should I do?
24/04/2007
Galaga
I do it for the lulz
Sinn320
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just say hi to her. walk past her and say hi just in passing, and move on from there. sit next to her if you have a chance ask he about her holidays n ****. man you've almost got 3000 kudos you should be able to get any girl you want.
24/04/2007
Gong, NSW
moosechild
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Sinn320 said: man you've almost got 3000 kudos you should be able to get any girl you want.

lol yeah right that just proves that I'm a NERD!
24/04/2007
Galaga
I do it for the lulz
Origin725
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You're already in a big hole because you're thinking about it so much, and that is going to come across so strongly when you approach her... there isn't anything that I can tell you do to do that is gonna work because you need to experience how you go about this sorta thing with a girl before you can become confident about it and be able to do things.

What I suggest you do before you speak to her and before you ask her (which you should definitely do - you're never gonna grow if you're too much of a ****, which is easy for me to say on the net but meh) is close your eyes that morning, think to yourself yep i'm definitely going to take her aside and ask her TODAY no matter what, it's happening today, and then close your eyes and imagine you're with her and she says yes and how bloody good that will feel... then go into it with the confidence that it's already happened in your imagination so that's how you're gonna feel when it actually DOES happen.

If you keep yr cool and stay a bit of a smart arse and don't be too nervous then you'll be all sweet dude! Don't think about it too much, and definitely don't tell her that you 'post' on MyWii or any of that **** straight up, just don't even talk about it yet heh.

Good luck (Y)
24/04/2007
Melbourne Vic
dsreaper
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I'd suggest trying to get some more time with her alone, do you have any classes together or anything?
Also do you get along with her friends? Because they will be part of the package! They don't leave the 2 of you alone just because you're dating so feel comfortable with them as well...maybe try sitting with them all at lunch or something.
Like Origin said just go in there full of confidence and ask her!

Good Luck
24/04/2007
Super Mario World
Gold Coast, Queensland
moosechild
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if she rejects me I'll cry....... I MEAN CRY!!! I am way too sensitive seriously I cry when I see road kill and the best time for me to ask her is after Shop class which is when I'm heading to lunch and her lunch table is right next to mine and all of her friends and her will see me crying.
24/04/2007
Galaga
I do it for the lulz
MrKibbles
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moosechild said:

Sinn320 said: man you've almost got 3000 kudos you should be able to get any girl you want.

lol yeah right that just proves that I'm a NERD!


sorry but that's true. i would just go for it, just dont fart by her.
24/04/2007
california
Origin725
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Mates: 5
Dude... honestly you gotta snap outta that mindset that you're in. If you keep thinking like that you're bound to end up that way, it's the path you're walking by thinking about it.

Seriously, it's harsh to say this to you but you are ****ED unless you can change your mindset and hold your head high. I know the feeling that you're feeling quite well, and honestly the fear that you are experiencing here is gonna crush you, and ITS NOT THAT BAD because honestly it's HER LOSS not yours.

DO NOT ask her out if you are going to go there thinking if she rejects me i'm gonna cry because if you do... that's how it will end and you're gonna be hurting for a lil while. Go there thinking, she's definitely gonna say yes, sweet no worries, all good. BOOM you got her. DO NOT be the dude she goes out with because of 'sympathy' you don't wanna be the sympathy dude because you'll get that rep!
24/04/2007
Melbourne Vic
dsreaper
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hmm...
if that's the case maybe don't ask her out on a "date".
Maybe you're better off asking if she'd be interested in coming over to play some Wii or go to a movie.
If she seems to think WTF he's hitting on me just say "as friends not a date"...that also pretty much gives you the answer, for now anyway and you didn't get shot down asking her out.

Honestly its one of the hardest things you'll ever do, it gets easier but it takes time, and unfortunately failing is sometimes part of the experience.

All my girlfriends were my friend first, so I'd suggest getting to know her outside school in the above mentioned suggestions...plus if she hates the Wii etc she's not for you anyway
My last gf and I hated each other when we first met, turned into the longest relationship we both ever had.
24/04/2007
Super Mario World
Gold Coast, Queensland
elgoonties
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Well after liking the same girl for over a year, I never had the nerves to ask her out until this year... Turns out she had liked me for a long time to... Just goes to show that you don't have much to lose in going for it. You should see things optimistically for there is MUCH MORE to gain in asking her out man.

Get in there gg!
:D
Good luck.
24/04/2007
Mario Kart Wii
S.A. = I <3 Antonina =
MrKibbles
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Mates: 50
maybe just wait till u get enough ballz. jk
24/04/2007
california
Foleyben
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Realistically youve decided if your going to ask her out or not. No matter what we say, you either have the balls(confidence) to ask her out or you dont.

I never asked a girl out while i was in school. When i did have a gf and she broke up with me i cried and cried. Next time i didnt, its not the end of the world. There are a couple of billion other girls out there who might be into you and alot wont. But even if 1% of the girls in the world like you, your chances are still pretty good.



24/04/2007
Ballarat, Victoria
ZOIDBERG
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Just ask her man! if you dont, some other d00d will and you will and it will feel more **** then if she says no.

Do some research first if you want, get you mate to ask her friends to find out if she has a boyfriend or not, then if she doesnt, dont be a fool and wait, ask her otherwise you will regret it!!!!
24/04/2007
Mario Kart Wii
Planet Earth, New New York
moosechild
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I'm sure you're sick of hearing me whine but Ihave never been blessed with good looks. www.mywii.com.au/
as you can see in this picture I look like a scruffy dog.
24/04/2007
Galaga
I do it for the lulz
leeman34
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dude find her email address or her msn ,yahoo or whatever you use over there and start chating to her then you'll be more equiped to take it to the real level
(dont ask her online though)
24/04/2007
Soul Calibur Legends
I am banned for good reason. All hail Guyver
dsreaper
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Mates: 151

moosechild said: I'm sure you're sick of hearing me whine but Ihave never been blessed with good looks. www.mywii.com.au/
as you can see in this picture I look like a scruffy dog.


You said in your first post she liked you because you were funny.
So **** your looks, they aren't everything and she's obviously into your personality and when that's the case you're golden, nothing will make her say no.

...you can't make someone like you, you can only stalk them long enough that they panic and say yes
joking about that last part of course!
24/04/2007
Super Mario World
Gold Coast, Queensland
moosechild
Kudos: 6,133
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see but MY FRIEND said she liked me cuz I'm funny I'm not sure if he really knows
24/04/2007
Galaga
I do it for the lulz
Foleyben
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Mates: 52
You dont look bad.

a186.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/

heres me. Not a great looking guy. but i still have someone.
24/04/2007
Ballarat, Victoria
MrKibbles
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Mates: 50
well your friend could make you look like a fool or a star 50% chance, go for it!
24/04/2007
california
dsreaper
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you're worrying to much Moose.
just ask her out or ask her if she wants to catch up after school or something and build a friendship then take it from there.

Either way worrying on a forum isn't going to help, you need to take action either way...just go for it
24/04/2007
Super Mario World
Gold Coast, Queensland
RerunWii
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moosechild said: there's this girl I REALLY, REALLY wanna ask out (any one who has seen my pics please don't make any rude comments on my appearance) named Jessie Gunson. the thing is that my friend Luke says she likes me cuz I'm funny. he swears on his life he isn't lying but I still am not sure to believe him or not and I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not and I only see her when she is around all of her friends and if I get rejected it's gonna be the flippin' talk of the school. what should I do?



Just complement her, nice eyes/hair always goes down well. Be nice just talk...

EDIT: Oh wait, this is moose? Didn't notice because you changed your av. In that case discard my last thought and follow her home naked, possibly weilding something, screaming I'LL KILL FOR YOU!!!!
24/04/2007
Street fighter 2 turbo;hyper fighting
The land of Prosperity...ok Brisbane
Origin725
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Dude you got no problems with your looks, you just need a haircut LOL. Girls would find you 'cute'.
24/04/2007
Melbourne Vic
leeman34
Kudos: 12,454
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RerunWii said:

moosechild said: there's this girl I REALLY, REALLY wanna ask out (any one who has seen my pics please don't make any rude comments on my appearance) named Jessie Gunson. the thing is that my friend Luke says she likes me cuz I'm funny. he swears on his life he isn't lying but I still am not sure to believe him or not and I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not and I only see her when she is around all of her friends and if I get rejected it's gonna be the flippin' talk of the school. what should I do?



Just complement her, nice eyes/hair always goes down well. Be nice just talk...

EDIT: Oh wait, this is moose? Didn't notice because you changed your av. In that case discard my last thought and follow her home naked, possibly weilding something, screaming I'LL KILL FOR YOU!!!!


hey that just might work lol
24/04/2007
Soul Calibur Legends
I am banned for good reason. All hail Guyver
moosechild
Kudos: 6,133
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RerunWii said:

moosechild said: there's this girl I REALLY, REALLY wanna ask out (any one who has seen my pics please don't make any rude comments on my appearance) named Jessie Gunson. the thing is that my friend Luke says she likes me cuz I'm funny. he swears on his life he isn't lying but I still am not sure to believe him or not and I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not and I only see her when she is around all of her friends and if I get rejected it's gonna be the flippin' talk of the school. what should I do?



Just complement her, nice eyes/hair always goes down well. Be nice just talk...

EDIT: Oh wait, this is moose? Didn't notice because you changed your av. In that case discard my last thought and follow her home naked, possibly weilding something, screaming I'LL KILL FOR YOU!!!!

lol, this is moose that makes it MUCH, MUCH different
24/04/2007
Galaga
I do it for the lulz
RerunWii
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naturally Moose, because...I feel like it I guess...SCHOOL SUCKS!
24/04/2007
Street fighter 2 turbo;hyper fighting
The land of Prosperity...ok Brisbane
 
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