I added my friend in America, and when added he instantly went white.
On his list, I was still black, yet I could still msg him, but the msg's wouldn't reach him, cause I was still black on his list.
Eventually, with time, the registery will go through, just add, leave it, have a game, etc.
I have heard stories of a minute adding, and then up to a week of adding. Patience.
15/12/2006
Victoria, Melbourne, Frankston